Friday, February 18, 2011

Obituary




Jonah Dare White 12/06/10 -02/16/11
I am Jonah Dare. I lived 10 weeks and learned to be grateful for the kindness of others. I want to thank all of the cute girls who brought cookies and cupcakes, the beautiful ladies who crocheted and quilted snuggly blankets, the culinary skill of thoughtful Utah county moms, the boys in the hood for hosting BYU games, and ESPN for creating the new “Jimmer” segment (BTW my mom can beat you in PIG), the coaches and Bantam basketball league for last second game winning shots, the people at IHC for tolerable torture, the funny old man with a $100 bill, the many kissin’ cousins, aunties, and uncles, the hope from Hope Kids, my big sister for sharing her cereal and the basketball ladies for dislodging it, the OT’s from Kids Who Count who persuaded me to SMILE, the RS for EVERYTHING and the Hip Hop artists that make my mom “shake it” with me in her arms. Mostly, I thank Heavenly Father for my chance at life with a beautiful mom, a lucky father, 4 loving sisters, and 3 brothers who are my heroes (especially Tai Nui!). Funeral services will be Feb. 23, at 950 S. 1700 E., Springville at 11 am, viewing at 10 am.
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20 comments:

  1. JaymieFebruary 18, 2011 at 1:51 PM

    Amazing.

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  2. Isaak and JackieFebruary 18, 2011 at 2:56 PM

    love it! who wrote it?

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  3. CassFebruary 18, 2011 at 3:52 PM

    Wanted you to know my thoughts and prayers are with your family. I just found your website today through Arlene. Please give Tai Nui a hug for me. Love you guys. -Cassity/Mrs. Banks

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  4. AprilFebruary 18, 2011 at 4:48 PM

    Oh there are no words. So tender...precious.

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  5. JoniFebruary 18, 2011 at 9:45 PM

    I am so amazed by you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Mariah's 1st grade teacher...Mrs. Allen

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  6. Eleyna JuliaFebruary 20, 2011 at 1:13 PM

    Lovely. You've been in my heart all week.

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  7. rilesFebruary 20, 2011 at 5:21 PM

    So I was reading the obits and saw Jonah's as soon as I saw mom winning at PIG I knew it was you guys. I'm on bed rest myself otherwise I'd be at the funeral. I love your humor and your spiritual strength and example of the love of the Savior. Thanks for being such an amazing family! Our prayers are with you and your kiddos. Jay and Julie Riley!

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  8. Karen EllaFebruary 20, 2011 at 9:19 PM

    Brought to your story because I googled "Jimmer". :) Fantastically beautiful obit for an absolutely stunning Child of God. My prayers will include your family. My own family has been through a similar trial, and we are the better for it. I am sure your family will be stronger and tighter when all is said and done. I can see that your family is one that lives worthy of such an amazing blessing.

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  9. AnonymousFebruary 21, 2011 at 1:03 AM

    I found your story just clicking through some links on KSL. I am sitting here at work reading through the blog and in tears. I am truly sorry for your loss. I am a 32 your old father of 2 and I do not know how you guys can be so strong during such a trial. The pictures of him living a full life in one day are the greatest. This really has made me realize how blessed me and my wife are for having 2 healthy children and a 3rd one on the way. I hope that you try again and have a healthy child this time around. You are an inspiration and your son has truly touched my heart. I wish you and your family the best.

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  10. SAN DIEGO NANAFebruary 21, 2011 at 1:32 AM

    I Just wanted to send my Deepest Sympathy , I am Truly Sorry for your Loss of your precious Jonah, It Saddens me to see a Loss of a child.. May God Comfort your family during this time of Sorrow...Such Adorable Precious Baby, he is now with his Heavenly Father..Your Little Angel....
    God Bless

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  11. KrystalFebruary 21, 2011 at 1:58 AM

    Thank you so much for sharing your story on this blog. I have been deeply touched. I admire your faith, optimism, and making the most of each moment. I found your blog through Jonah's obituary. Thanks again for sharing.

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  12. shirlgirlFebruary 21, 2011 at 3:35 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. Jonah was a beautiful baby. Your post is beautiful, seeing life through his Mom's eyes. My prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time. I send love and prayers to your children who must be having a very hard time with this loss. Bless you all.

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  13. ShannonFebruary 21, 2011 at 8:33 PM

    amazing and beautiful...that describes both Jonah and your family. My heart is with your whole family!

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  14. Hone Family as in Ryan and AshleyFebruary 21, 2011 at 8:46 PM

    I love the obituary (so glad you shared your blog through the Herald). So cute and so much personality. My heart aches for your loss. I recently lost my little guy as well. I hope your family finds peace at this time of loss. If you would ever like to attend a support group, there is a great one here in Utah Valley. I know you don't know me, but know that you are in my prayers today.

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  15. Sam and FamFebruary 22, 2011 at 4:09 PM

    Mom really truly is beautiful and Dad is a lucky duck, well said. I love the obit! Way to celebrate all that God had given us,

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  16. AmyFebruary 22, 2011 at 8:54 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss, what an amazing tribute to your little boy. Behka you are such an inspiration to me. I will never forget the day you told me you were going to have Jonah, we were sitting on a blanket at the kickball game. You told me of the loss of your other children, I was in tears by the end of the game. I have learned a lot from you. My prayers are with you and your little family. Amy Smith

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  17. StaceyFebruary 22, 2011 at 10:52 PM

    Found your blog through the obituaries. I am so sorry for your loss, but I know Jonah is now doing all the things he couldn't do here on earth. I feel blessed to have seen your blog. I can't even imagine what your life has been through losing 3 children! You are an amazing family. I have 5 healthy kids and I now love them even more (if possible) after reading your story. Thank You! Miracles do happen I can attest to that. He was a beautiful baby. (((HUGS))) to your family.

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  18. Tab DeanFebruary 23, 2011 at 1:19 PM

    what an amazing service! i came right home and papered framed Jonahs service program and put it on my fridge. it says....find the joy and enjoy doing it...thanks Behka. My heart is full as i also learned how important each moment is to your family, as Rob showed how to share....I would love to share. In my rush this morning i was irritated at the timeing when my baby had a real messy diaper. At the service he was able to fall asleep and i was able to enjoy the service without any interruptions. My oldest called it the messy miracle. Thanks for helping me see the Lords help even in the messy things and for letting me hold an angel.

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  19. YlfeFebruary 24, 2011 at 12:23 PM

    this is the cutest, sweetest obituary I've ever read. you guys are awesome. lots of love and prayers sent your way.

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  20. CaleneFebruary 28, 2011 at 2:13 PM

    I found your blog through the obituaries. What an amazing story, an amazing family and an amazing tribute to a beautiful little boy. Thank you for sharing his short life with many of us who are stranger. My life has been touched today by your devotion to him and your family. I loved his obituary...full of light and humor! Thank you and God bless your family.

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